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Madeline Taylor, PhD's avatar

This story is horrifying and heartbreaking. It's another example of how people who appear assertive and confident on the outside, can be psychologically disordered and sociopathic on the inside. It seems as if Family Court has become a haven for judges who, beneath the aura of respectability, harbor serious personality disorders that manifest in sadistic cruelty toward the innocent and vulnerable.

I'm glad you're exposing this, Bandy, and distressed that you, Ms. Weaver, and thousands of others are affected by

The Sociopath Next Door, who wields the authority to cause more suffering rather than to protect those who are already suffering.

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Nonya's avatar

It’s the Family Court judges who are the real Terrorists - all cut from the same corrupt cloth - no exceptions. They are rabid, untreatable psychopaths who fully deserve the electric chair. Many have forgotten that **WE** are the government - not these Criminals. They were appointed as public servants, but they have utterly failed to do their job responsibly and with integrity. It is now up to us to teach them a lesson.

Until their children and homes are taken away from them the way they take ours, they will never learn the lesson they need to. Not in a million years. Not after a million legislative reforms. These chameleons and shape-shifters have mastered the art of adapting and surviving - always at our expense. Termination is the only viable option.

Family Courts must be abolished. No ifs, buts, or maybes. They are completely redundant. Every matter they currently handle (correction - butcher) can and should be dealt with either through private mediation or in civil court with the added advantage of constitutionally mandated due process rights and access to a jury trial.

As for those who were complicit and allowed this injustice to fester - whether by inaction or by silence - I would throw every last one of them in jail. No mercy. No exceptions. Then I’d take the key and toss it into the deepest part of the ocean, to be swallowed by a wandering fish, fossilized over time, and discovered generations later - preserved in a museum as a chilling reminder of what happens to those who violate children’s rights and destroy innocent lives for power and personal gain.

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Allison Eli's avatar

I love your writing

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Nonya's avatar

That’s very kind of you. Thank you. I appreciate it.

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HFCRights's avatar

Unbelievable, unfortunately, sadly it’s common . Modern day torture. And now the world is finally hearing about it. Unless we repeal SSA title 4D AND 4 E , costing the unknowing taxpayers $15.2 billion a year . The suffering will continue.

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Justice in az's avatar

We have a protective mother in Arizona whose abuser is in law enforcement. Their case was assigned to the most corrupt judge in Arizona. Her case is an absolute trainwreck too. These poor parents and children are being victimized by the system that is supposed to protect them! https://davisvanguard.org/2025/06/arizona-family-court-corruption-exposed

https://www.change.org/p/investigate-remove-judge-charlene-jackson-for-alleged-negligence-and-misconduct

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Renee kitani's avatar

There is strength in numbers, and we are standing together.

What’s happening in family court is not justice it’s a holocaust of children. This is not about the best interests of the child. This is cash for kids a corrupt system where court actors profit from tearing families apart.

Judges, guardians ad litem, and so-called “experts” took an oath to uphold the Constitution, but they act more like a mafia than public servants. They operate in the shadows, insulated by immunity, immune to oversight, and driven by greed.

We must expose these monsters. We must shine a light on the corruption, the abuse, and the suffering they cause. This isn’t family court this is trafficking by another name, dressed up in legal robes.

We will not be silent. We will not stop. We are many and we are watching.

Praying for your family

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Allison Eli's avatar

This demonic entities called "judges" ruin so many lives and homes, it's sick.

There's no reason to treat children like this unless its for evil purposes.

How do we stop them?

My own parents don't believe any of this craziness is real and I'm just being dramatic.

I miss my son, he's been forced to live with the abusive narcissistic POS and be kept from his primary attachment figures. I had majority custody of our son for the first 3 years, then my ex husband got sole custody based on one sentence of hearsay which is not admissible in court. He had zero evidence, because he makes things up. He's going to end up getting our son killed because of how neglectful he is. He uses food to mess with my son's head, he's kidnapped him, abandoned him with an ex con and a child sex offender for a month. Police wouldn't do a thing, they made fun of me. Whenever I do speak up, "the authorities" humiliate me, make fun of me, and don't do anything to help my son.

I dont have any family or friends anymore. I don't know why, but when my A-hole ex husband stole my baby, I told people, they ALL just cut me off completely, my parents are my ex husbands flying monkeys, they refuse to accept the truth. I feel gaslight all over again. I hate family court, they enable abuse, sadistic people, and I know that they are all going to hell because this is evil.

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Susan Cortilet Jones (link ⬇️)'s avatar

I have chills reading this story. Emily-I am so sorry. To the thousands of ‘Emily’s’ and their children I’m so sorry for the intentional cruelty brought to your families by these judges and court systems.

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